HOME VISITS TIPS
Remember, the home visit is all about your child's social and emotional well-being and creating a positive experience for them.
Embrace the opportunity for the teacher to visit your home without feeling like your home, family, parenting, or the child's abilities are being evaluated. This visit is about building connections, not judgments.
Keep in mind that the home visit is not a formal conference between the parent and the teacher. While you may have questions or concerns, let the focus remain on the child during the visit. If you have questions, find another time to discuss them privately with the teacher.
Understand that as a parent, it's natural to feel some anxieties about your child's new phase in life. However, during the home visit, let your excitement and positivity shine through to help alleviate any potential anxieties your child may have.
Release any stress or pressure you may feel about the visit. Remember, there's no need to overly clean the house or prepare extravagant snacks. Create a comfortable and relaxed environment as you would for any playdate.
Appreciate the significance of inviting the teacher into your home. It sends a signal to your child that the teacher is a trusted and caring person, fostering a sense of security and friendship.
Empower your child during the visit by allowing them to take the lead in planning and choosing activities. Their preferences may change, and that's perfectly fine—go with the flow and enjoy the spontaneous moments.
Embrace simplicity when planning activities for the visit. Blocks, puzzles, games, or outdoor play are fantastic options. Let your child's interests guide the choices.
Schedule the visit at a time when your child is alert and in good spirits, avoiding meal times, nap times, or too close to bedtime. Mid-morning or early afternoon visits tend to work best for most children.
If possible, arrange the visit when other siblings are not present, allowing for a more focused interaction. Minimize sibling involvement as much as you can to create an intimate setting.
Respect and appreciate the teacher's time. Remember, they are conducting home visits for multiple students, and their personal time is dedicated to this meaningful connection.
If the home visit doesn't go exactly as planned and your child may be hesitant or upset, there's no need to worry. Such reactions are completely normal. Instead of pushing, have a relaxed and casual conversation between the parents and the teacher. Let your child witness the positive interaction, helping to create a comforting atmosphere.
Remember not to hover during the visit. Stay nearby to ensure your child feels safe, but allow them to engage with the teacher independently. Find a balance between being present and giving them space. Take this opportunity to enjoy some quiet moments for yourself, knowing that your child is in caring hands.
May your home visit be a warm and joyous occasion for your child and family!